2021.09.25 05:02 1976person They are scary don’t judge
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2021.09.25 05:02 StimkyBingus ‘Banter’ or bullying
My (22F) partner (28M) have been together nearly 9 months. I had never dated any one older than me by ~1/2 years, so I really loved how stable and put together he seemed in relation. From the beginning, I have always struggled to keep up with his ‘banter’, which has always been pretty scathing (eg. Comments on my body, worth, family). I have noticed I am perfectly capable of keeping up and not being hurt by these comments when I’m in a positive and confident headspace, however when I am not, it just pushes me to a point of dissociation. The main issue that has led me to this point is that he continually jokes about my body, calling me ‘a fat cow’ or grabbing my belly in public as though it’s huge or something. I am a size 8/10 Australian. He knows I previously had an eating disorder and still struggle with body image so this cuts deep. He makes me feel ‘not good enough’.
I really struggle to not block out and ignore my emotions (hence looking for support here). I am in therapy currently to try to address this. Recently, we were fighting and I became numb and confused. Like always he could not communicate seriously about the issue and opted for childish tone and tactics. I realise this behaviour is likely his own set of issues around conflict, however it is just pervasive and I feel I can’t/it’s not worth talking to him about how I feel. He can be such a good partner but this is just a consistent thing I can’t ignore.
I keep coming to the decision that I need to break up with him, however then just never actually do it as I’m currently living with him also, so it’s a bit tricky. I keep telling myself that even though every partner has their flaws, there at least must be someone out there that won’t casually call me a fat cow as if it’s nothing. At the very least, I’d love some perspective on this from a third party.
Sorry for wall of text. TLDR: boyfriend’s banter going too far
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2021.09.25 05:02 DoughnutSlight694 Finally it happened!
Ordered 6/9 and picked up today 9/24. No alignment issues. White seats had minor stains and scheduled service for that. Great delivery experience overall..
Went for FSD. Learned few things in first few hours 😀
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2021.09.25 05:02 Idunno-9923 Posting figures day 10 Earthrise Starscream sorry for the delay
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2021.09.25 05:01 La_Pantera I love writing with my pens! They’re helping me think and plan more than I ever would. Trying to be minimalist, but love seeing all of the posts here!
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2021.09.25 05:01 Heavilyarmedchef I’ll just let this one speak for itself.
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2021.09.25 05:01 ZephyrusOG Let’s tone down the hysteria about injuries.
Boys can we all relax a little bit with this? Not talking about any specific post but the general hysteria I see here about this. It does not help the situation one bit!
We don’t and cannot know the whole picture here but one thing we know is that the club is in good hands and we have immense potential. If there’s anything wrong with the coaching staff you guys think Sergen would allow that shit to fly under the radar? No fucking way. Same goes with other variables.
Call me a hopeless optimist but I think this process will help the team in the long run, it must already be giving courage to the coach seeing the team compete (and most of the time still play better) than top competition in the league regardless missing a giant chunk of the squad. We will sweep this league mark my words.
The only disappointment for me is not being able to show our true potential in CL from the get go. But, nothing is lost there yet either and regardless who’s missing we need to push through.. So let’s trust and push through with the team instead of giving click bait material to the shitty media and create more of this illusion that we cannot come out the other end triumphant. We will! 🦅🦅🦅
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2021.09.25 05:01 RudeDudeInTheMood Nicolas Cage Makes the Best Grilled Cheese Sandwiches
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2021.09.25 05:01 dontyouwannaf4nta How do you explain the phenomenon of getting hit up by good-looking guys but ignored by unattractive ones?
Sometimes when I've actually taken the initiative to message people first, usually unattractive ones - not with the attention of getting a date or a hook up, but just chatting because of something on their profile out of interest - I've gotten ignored. Thought maybe we could be buds or something.
On the other hand, I get hit up by traditionally attractive guys for dates or hooking up on tinder or scruff. I've been told I'm good-looking, but I by no means see myself as this athletic stud who people pine over. Those are the kind of people who hit me up though.
I've gotten the impression that some very average-to-below-average guys are the cockiest and coldest with an inflated ego, looking for this ideal they can't get...whereas attractive guys are usually just chill, don't seem as stand-offish, easier to talk to, and are happy with an above-average looking guy who is masculine (I know some people in this sub will have a problem with that statement). The subset of attractive guys who are pushy and aren't used to hearing no is a different kinda post.
I acknowledge that no one is entitled to a response, but it's ironic and counter-intuitive.
Does this happen to anyone else?
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