How do I (14M) deal with someone (14F) who’s leading me on?

2021.09.25 05:07 ohlookmars How do I (14M) deal with someone (14F) who’s leading me on?

Just some background. There was a girl in my class last year and we started talking and dating and inevitably broke up because her parents have an irrational fear of her getting pregnant so she can’t date boys and we couldn’t really do anything. Fast forward to this year and we have the same classes again, so we see and talk to each other pretty often. We got back in contact and I tried seeing if things had changed or if she wanted to try to make things work. She didn’t. I was fine with that, and I was cool with just being friends anyways. However, I realized that she was being very touchy and clingy in terms of in class. If we had a group assignment, she’d always pick me. If we had to do any sort of physical activity, I was her teammate. If we had to sit in a place for lunch, she was at my table. Maybe, I thought, she acted like this with her other close friends. Upon just basic observation and asking, no, she didn’t act this way with any other of her friends. It’s started bordering on classmates genuinely mistaking us for a couple. Again, when confronted about this, she told me she “didn’t like me that way.” So, what the hells going on here? My general consensus, and I’m sure yours too is that she’s excited that someone likes her, and is taking advantage of that fact, despite knowing she can’t and doesn’t want to be with me. Now as to whether she’s doing this consciously or subconsciously, I’m leaning on the latter. She seems really nice and it doesn’t feel like something she’d genuinely do. And so, my question to you, is how do I move on without hurting our friendship? Again, I think she’s doing it subconsciously, so just randomly accusing her of being manipulative when she herself knows she wasn’t trying to be would be kind of douchey. I’d love to just find someone else and solve this whole problem, but meeting nice people outside of school in my town is VERY hard. Thank you for any help you can provide.
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2021.09.25 05:07 OhGriggsy Idk what I should do

I need help/advice. I'm a 22m and within the past 4 weeks or so have made some new friends and now apart of this 10-12 person friend group and we're all really into cars and go to the same car meets together and so on. They've all known eachother for months and some for years and I'm kinda just the new person but we all get along really...well almost all of us.
I'll won't be using their real names just incase but I don't think anyone in the group uses reddit 😅
Anyways to get into it and explain the situation.... You have Greg, Mike and Jessica in this friend group. Greg and Mike were pretty great friends...but they both had feelings for Jessica. Jessica and Mike had relationship but it only lasted around 2 weeks and was a complete trainwreck and turned out Mike really only just wanted to sleep with her, pressured her into it and shortly after they broke up. Greg took Jessica's side and now because of it Greg and Mike are no longer close/friends but they do remain civil for the most part.
Well now Jessica and Greg are "besties" but Greg still has alot of feelings for Jessica but she's pretty much friendzoned him into oblivion.
Here's where I come in...It's kind of early for me to to truly know if I'm really into Jessica but there is some sort of interest for me anyways. I just can't tell yet if it's a sexual interest because she's this attractive, blonde car girl...or if I'm interested in her from a dating/genuine relationship standpoint. Regardless of looks she's honestly 1 of the nicest people I've ever met and is extremely social and easy to talk to.
I'm worried that if I "pursue" her; If she even wants a relationship if it would cause drama in the friend group and more so really start drama with Greg. There's things that have happened that makes me think Greg has no and won't get a chance. For example the entire group of us had a party last Saturday night and Greg got hammered drunk and Jessica had come over to me and whispered into my ear asking if I could take care of Greg since she knows he has feelings for her and he may think something of her taking care of him. Also a few nights Greg had made me aware of him and her getting into it a little bit and "people putting shit in her head" and now they're gonna try to separate themselves and do their own things which kinda mentally destroyed Greg but they still seem to be friends/friendly.
I'm not worried about Mike and the situation with him as we're upfront with eachother and he said to do whatever makes me happy and our friendship won't change but I am slightly worried at what could happen if her and me were to start seeing eachother and what Greg would think/do. I know it seems like there's alot in the air but that's why I'm here asking should I even try to invest in this or maybe just wait and see what happens in 1-2 months time?
Me and Jessica are going to a "Cars and Coffee" Sunday morning. So far I haven't invited anyone else or told anyone else to meet us there as I want to see what happens and how she sees this. If she invites people cool because it'll probably be friends from within our group, If not then maybe there's also some sort of mutual interest? Idk.
Am I a bad person for even considering to "pursue" or talk to Jessica knowing all this?
Tl;dr: I'm in a friend group of 10-12 people and have interest in this girl but she's dated 1 guy in the friend group (he just wanted to sleep with her) and another guy in the friend group has crazy feelings for her but she's friendzoned him to hell and I don't think she feels the same. Should I "pursue" something with her or is there too much drama involved?
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2021.09.25 05:07 PM-ACTS-OF-KINDNESS What is something people said you'd regret, but you don't?

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2021.09.25 05:07 dhsiver217 The strangers who offer to take pictures of your group so you can all be in the photo are the best people.

My little family of 3 was enjoying a pumpkin patch the other day and there was an oversized chair my husband and toddler were posed on while I was taking photos with my phone. A woman came up and offered to take a photo of all 3 of us. She was incredibly patient and took her time making sure my baby was looking at the camera. She even took the time to make her smile by being goofy and making silly faces. The photos she captured are amazing. I am so grateful for her. I now have these beautiful pictures of my whole family I didn't expect to have. She took 3 minutes out of her day and gave my family a gift we can enjoy for a long time. The photos are so good I will probably print some to hang up somewhere in the house.
I never ask strangers take photos because I don't want to bother people. But when they offer, I gladly accept. I am usually the one taking photos when I go places with friends or family so it's pretty common for me to not be in the photos.
If you are the kind of person who offers to take photos for other people like this sweet lady did, you are the best. You may not think about it when you offer, but you are helping another family/group of friends create memories they will cherish for a long time.
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2021.09.25 05:07 EboniteThermos A theory on Coriakin and the Dufflepuds

While reading the Voyage of the Dawn Treader, I've noticed one interesting thing, namely that the Dufflepuds read like a perfect caricature of human political parties, the military, etc.: they are unquestioningly obedient to their Chief, they tried to use weapons against Caspian's crew, and they are extremely conceited (in the illustrations, they are depicted wearing fancy suits and shoes):
https://preview.redd.it/rc5e05xtfkp71.jpg?width=320&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=6d2a64069456ddba7706a6d2f0a8d6d72b63c432
Coriakin, on the other hand, is more of an sage/hermit figure like Socrates or Master Yoda: he goes barefoot, he has a sense of humor and self-irony, and is generally quite eccentric:
https://preview.redd.it/yy3pb4srfkp71.jpg?width=208&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a544f4fb291e55406afe4440c419a985b35519b0
In real life, people like Coriakin usually had to obey the will of the "Dufflepuds" rather than the other way round (Socrates was forced to drink hemlock, and many saints and sages were executed or died in prison), so this role reversal feels somewhat like retribution. I even thought that perhaps the Dufflepuds were human politicians and warlords in their past lives, just like Coriakin was a star, and perhaps they initially didn't want to obey Coriakin because they had no respect for "the crazy old man who doesn't even have footwear" (just like emperors and conquerors often had no respect for saints and hermits). And after he turned them into Monopods, they were like: "Ok, guess we do have to obey him, but only because he has magical power".
What do you think?
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2021.09.25 05:07 celestial261 Overwhelmed

I have always loved dnd but have never played. There just wasnt anyone to play with. Until now. My nephew also loves dnd and wants to play with me. I'm extremely nervous and have no faith in my skills but I want to try for him. I thought "Its fine we'll do a super beginner game just to start out. But then my mom and sister (nephews mom) wanted to join in too. And instead of useing premade characters they want to make their own. It sounded fun so I agreed. But it has gotten so out of hand. My party now consists of 5 players (mom, sister, both of my nephews and my niece), and my moms character is a half dragon half elf. My sister is a ranger with a shaved bear that thinks she's its mom. The kids are coming over tonight to make theirs and idk what to do anymore. I want the game to be fun but I would have liked to build up to all the homebrewing I now have to do.
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